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Sex Therapist Montclair NJ

Montclair, NJ sex therapy with Dr. Stephen Snyder, MD. 30+ years of experience providing innovative treatments for sex and relationship concerns.
Dr Stephen Snyder

Sex Therapy in Montclair, NJ

Stephen Snyder, MD

Sex and relationship issues affect nearly everyone. The good news is that most problems of intimate life can be helped without spending years in therapy.  

For over 30 years, NYC sex therapist Dr Stephen Snyder has worked to develop solution-focused treatments for sex and relationship concerns.  He is now pleased to offer consultation and counseling for individuals and couples in Montclair, NJ.

Dr Snyder’s peers have consistently recognized him as a Castle Connolly Top Doctor and New York Magazine Best Doctor.  His practical, no-nonsense approach has made him one of Manhattan’s most sought-after sex and relationship therapists.  He brings  decades of specialized experience to the care of individuals and couples struggling with sex and relationship concerns – either by telehealth from New Jersey or in-person at his Manhattan office.

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Specialized Sex and Relationship Services

Dr. Snyder specializes in helping individuals and couples with a wide range of sexual and relationship issues, including:
Sex Therapy

Sex Therapy

Sex therapy has changed over the years. What hasn’t changed is the collaborative nature of the work; a preference for brief, solution-focused treatments anchored in the here-and-now; and a respect for the body’s natural potential for sexual arousal once you get out of its way.
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Low Libido

Low Libido

Desire problems can be complicated. Treatment should be personalized, evidence-based, and should start with a careful review of your story. By the end of your first appointment, you should have a clear conception of the problem and a real plan for making things better.
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Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

ED involves both the mind and body. Treatment requires a full understanding of both. As an MD sex therapist, Dr Snyder has decades of experience combining medical and psychological treatments to enable almost any man to experience confident erections again.
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Premature Ejaculation (PE)

Premature Ejaculation (PE)

Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual condition, and the most frequently misunderstood. As an MD sex therapist, Dr Snyder has decades of experience with psychological techniques – plus medication as needed – to achieve optimal results.
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Trouble Ejaculating

Trouble Ejaculating / Delayed Ejaculation (DE)

DE is unexpectedly common, and can be surprisingly simple to treat. But few sex therapists know how. Dr Snyder has pioneered new, ultra-brief treatments for DE and has helped hundreds of men with this condition – including some who’ve never ejaculated in their lives.
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Sexless Marriage

Sexless Marriage

Sex can wane for all kinds of reasons, from low desire to marital conflict to simply bad sex. But sexlessness eventually becomes self-perpetuating. Treatment starts with exploring exactly what went wrong, then formulating an action plan to help repair your erotic bond.
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Infidelity

Infidelity

Most couples affected by infidelity end up staying together. Goals of counseling are to help a couple heal the emotional wound, encounter each other in a safe environment, and rebuild trust and connection – usually starting with an honest account of what happened.
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Intimacy Problems

Intimacy Problems

Many people tend to lose interest, lose connection, or lose themselves in intimate relationships. Past trauma or neglect often play a role. Healing often starts with feeling safe to express what you actually feel, rather than what you think the other person wants to hear.
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TeleHealth Sex Therapy

TeleHealth Video Sessions

HIPAA-compliant TeleHealth can be more convenient for busy couples in NY, NJ, CT, FL, TX, and CA who need access to specialized help. With 3-way video conferencing, you can meet with Dr Snyder from separate locations, or from opposite sides of the country.
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Telehealth and In-Person Sessions Available

Whether you prefer an in-person visit or the convenience of telehealth, Dr. Snyder offers options to suit your needs:

  • Telehealth: Secure and confidential virtual sessions allow you access from anywhere in Montclair, NJ.
  • In-Person: Visit Dr. Snyder’s office in the Lincoln Center area of Manhattan for a private and comfortable setting.

Manhattan Office Location
170 West End Avenue, Suite 1-E
New York, NY 10023

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Why Trust Dr. Stephen Snyder for Sex Therapy?

Dr. Snyder’s practice is entirely devoted to sex and relationship concerns. He brings over 30 years of experience to this work, and a deep knowledge of the field that comes from a lifetime of specialized learning and practice.

Recognized Expertise:

Dr. Snyder has earned a national reputation through his writing, national presentations, and media appearances – and has helped over 2,500 individuals and couples achieve better satisfaction in sex and relationships.

Collaborative and Solution-Based:

Dr Snyder helps you clarify specific goals and works with you to formulate a plan to achieve those goals within a reasonable time frame.

Holistic Approach:

Sexual concerns often have both emotional and physical parts. As a sex therapist who is also a licensed physician, Dr Snyder is able to address both medical and psychological aspects.

Judgmental-Free:

Dr Snyder believes a sex and relationship therapist’s office should reliably be a zero-judgment zone.

Cost-Effective:

Brief, time-limited treatment is ideal for most sex and relationship problems. Dr Snyder strives to deliver effective care in as few sessions as possible.

Beyond Conventional Care:

Dr Snyder often works with individuals and couples for whom previous therapy or sex therapy have failed – or who are in other forms of therapy but not making progress.

Virtual and In-Person Sessions:

Individuals and couples can receive care conveniently through telehealth from Montclair, NJ – or in-person at Dr Snyder’s Manhattan office.

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Deciding to see a sex and relationship therapist can be your first step toward a more satisfying intimate life.
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What You Can Expect

Sessions are conducted in a safe, judgment-free environment.  The highest standards of privacy are maintained.  

Modern sex therapy is “talking-only.”  A first appt is typically at least 90 minutes, since there’s usually a lot to cover – plus time at the end to discuss best strategies and options.  You should come away from a first appointment having learned at least one or two practical things you can do right away. 


Dr Snyder’s award-winning book Love Worth Making gives an insider’s look at how modern sex therapy works, through vivid stories taken from Dr Snyder’s practice.
If you’re curious but undecided about sex therapy, a quick half-hour skimming through Love Worth Making can give you a sense of whether a consultation with Dr Snyder might be right for you.

What to Expect During Sex Therapy

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If you’re in the Montclair, NJ area, Dr. Snyder is here to help. Deciding to see a sex and relationship therapist can be your first step toward a more satisfying intimate life.

Call (917) 270-0384 or complete the form below to find out what sex and relationship therapy might do for you.
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