NYC Sex Therapy and Relationship Counseling
Why More New Yorkers Trust Dr Stephen Snyder
New, innovative sex and relationship treatments that truly help people without the need for long-term therapy have made Dr Snyder one of the most sought-after sex and relationship therapists in NYC and beyond.
“One of the best decisions I’ve ever made."
A Patient - Vitals.com
“His approach is unmatched.”
A Patient - Vitals.com
“He gets it right away.”
A Patient - Vitals.com
"A 'doctor's doctor.'"
A Patient - Vitals.com
“There is no end to my gratitude.”
A Patient - Vitals.com
“One of the best decisions I’ve ever made."
A Patient - Vitals.com
“His approach is unmatched.”
A Patient - Vitals.com
“He gets it right away.”
A Patient - Vitals.com
"A 'doctor's doctor.'"
A Patient - Vitals.com
“There is no end to my gratitude.”
A Patient - Vitals.com
NYC Sex Therapist & Relationship Expert
Stephen Snyder, MD
Dr Snyder is Associate Clinical Professor of Psychiatry at the Icahn School of Medicine at Mt Sinai in NYC. He’s the author of one of the most acclaimed sex and relationship books of our time, LOVE WORTH MAKING: How to Have Ridiculously Great Sex in a Long-Lasting Relationship (St Martin’s Press, 2018), and has an international reputation as NYC’s go-to sex therapist and relationship expert.
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“Thoughtful, helpful . . . This sex therapist has the secret to great long-term relationship sex.”
Brides Magazine
"Dr. Snyder is nationally respected both as an outstanding sex therapist for couples and individuals and as a wise and considerate teacher in the field of psychotherapy."
Sallie Foley M.S.W
Author, Sex Matters For Women
"Dr Snyder is one of the most creative thinkers in the field of clinical sexuality today. I recommend him highly."
Kathryn Hall PhD
Author, Reclaiming Your Sexual Self
"Dr. Stephen Snyder is a dedicated sex and relationship therapist. He is on the cutting edge and one of the most knowledgeable and talented therapists in the field."
Joe Kort PhD
Author, Is My Husband Gay, Straight, or Bi?
“Whether you’ve been married for twenty years or you’re in the swipe-right chapter of your life, Snyder makes a compelling case that the essence of good—rewarding, memorable, impassioned—sex is understanding our sexual selves.”
Goop
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Sex Therapy
Sex therapy has changed over the years. What hasn’t changed is the collaborative nature of the work; a preference for brief, solution-focused treatments anchored in the here-and-now; and a respect for the body’s natural potential for sexual arousal once you get out of its way.
Low Libido
Desire problems can be complicated. Treatment should be personalized, evidence-based, and should start with a careful review of your story. By the end of your first appointment, you should have a clear conception of the problem and a real plan for making things better.
Erectile Dysfunction (ED)
ED involves both the mind and body. Treatment requires a full understanding of both. As an MD sex therapist, Dr Snyder has decades of experience combining medical and psychological treatments to enable almost any man to experience confident erections again.
Premature Ejaculation (PE)
Premature ejaculation is the most common male sexual condition, and the most frequently misunderstood. As an MD sex therapist, Dr Snyder has decades of experience with psychological techniques – plus medication as needed – to achieve optimal results.
Trouble Ejaculating / Delayed Ejaculation (DE)
DE is unexpectedly common, and can be surprisingly simple to treat. But few sex therapists know how. Dr Snyder has pioneered new, ultra-brief treatments for DE and has helped hundreds of men with this condition – including some who’ve never ejaculated in their lives.
Sexless Marriage
Sex can wane for all kinds of reasons, from low desire to marital conflict to simply bad sex. But sexlessness eventually becomes self-perpetuating. Treatment starts with exploring exactly what went wrong, then formulating an action plan to help repair your erotic bond.
Infidelity
Most couples affected by infidelity end up staying together. Goals of counseling are to help a couple heal the emotional wound, encounter each other in a safe environment, and rebuild trust and connection – usually starting with an honest account of what happened.
Intimacy Problems
Many people tend to lose interest, lose connection, or lose themselves in intimate relationships. Past trauma or neglect often play a role. Healing often starts with feeling safe to express what you actually feel, rather than what you think the other person wants to hear.
TeleHealth Video Sessions
HIPAA-compliant TeleHealth can be more convenient for busy couples in NY, NJ, CT, FL, TX, and CA who need access to specialized help. With 3-way video conferencing, you can meet with Dr Snyder from separate locations, or from opposite sides of the country.
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